The boyfriend, Frank Alezander Santiago, 24, was held in lieu of $750,000. While it seems counterintuitive, scapegoating makes a mother believe that. SIX TIMES to me exact I dont ask for much, but every share and subscription helps. The mother of the woman killed during a standoff with Baltimore County police said her daughter ignored pleas from her boyfriend to surrender. This type partner is similar to a boyfriend, except that it has a marital-like status.